I don’t ever want to have kids.
*Insert horrified gasp or dramatic eye widening here*
I typically don’t get a positive response when I tell people that I can’t picture a future where I ever have children.
What I do get is a lot of, “you’re only 19, you’ll change your mind.” I’ve also heard, “I said the same thing when I was your age and now I have (insert number here) kids!” The ever so charming, “that’s so selfish,” has been said a lot, or my favorite, “you’ll change your mind once you meet the right person.”
What does the “right person” have to do with my decision to carry a child inside of me for nine months anyway?